For the last several decades, you’ve always made these kinds of decisions together. What can already be an emotional task of drafting a will is even more so after the loss of a lifelong partner. Even in the event of a terminal illness diagnosis with time to prepare in advance, Senior Vice President and Financial Advisor Cinda J. Collins of RBC Wealth Management often felt overwhelmed during the settlement of her husband’s estate after he passed away from leukemia.
While the best course of action is always to plan together ahead of time, Forbes published estate planning advice for surviving spouses in “The Widow's Guide To Estate Planning And Wealth Transfer.”
Make Sure You Have a Professionally Drafted Will. To be as prepared as possible in the event of a spouse’s passing, talk to an experienced estate attorney together as a couple to ensure all your affairs are in order. If a spouse passes away unexpectedly without planning, the surviving partner may have headaches.
Typically an estate attorney will give a couple information outlining all the topics to consider and documents to bring to the initial meeting. Bring your life insurance policy and any net-worth statements that tell how different properties are titled.
Another important part of estate planning for couples with young children: think about guardianship before talking with your estate planning attorney. This will be more cost effective and make the meeting more meaningful.
Open Your Own Bank Account. A big surprise for widows is that joint accounts may be frozen when a spouse passes away. A separate account in your own name can be used for immediate expenses. Be sure to add a payable on death designation to this individual account. You can also put the couple’s joint account in a trust before the spouse passes with the proviso that, in the event of his death, the assets would transfer allowing quick access to the funds.
Lean on a Friend. The complexities of estate planning make it important to rely on a qualified estate planning attorney. Just as it’s critical to rely on an expert for legal support in the estate planning process, a bereaved spouse may also turn to a third-party expert, such as a grief counselor or clergy for emotional support. Also, a recently bereaved individual might find it helpful to bring a friend to any estate-related meetings. In a state of grieving, you can miss stuff. Bring someone along to take notes and remind you of things you need to do.
Reference: Forbes (June 2, 2015) “The Widow's Guide To Estate Planning And Wealth Transfer”